Clothesless Poolside Adventures: Shining the Sun Where the Sun Don’t Shine

Yesterday, Ludwig and I spent some time by the pool at Oasis Aqualounge, a heated outdoor pool and patio, in the heart of downtown Toronto.  It is also a sex club, so patrons of this patio expect to see lots of flesh and free expression of sexy desires.  (such as Ludwig’s request for a little […]

Put Coconut Oil Between Your Legs

As someone who lives, breathes and loves alternative health, I am consistently searching for ways to make life a little more pure and a little less chemicalized.   Our sex life is no exception in this endeavour. One of the main sources of chemicals in the bedroom?  Lube.  We’ve tried alternative lube, organic lube, natural lube, […]

The Top Three Things to Remember When You’re Going Down on Me

Ludwig and I have an interesting pattern and pastime of talking about sex right after we’ve had sex.  We like to reminisce, discuss, fantasize and thank each other.  It’s a lovely exchange. The other day, we got on the topic of oral sex.  Ludwig loves cunnilingus.  He is fascinated with how the pussy behaves when […]

Adventuring into Night-Time at the Sex Club

Ludwig and I are regular guests at Oasis Aqua Lounge.  It’s a spa by day, club by night complete with pool, sauna, steam room, outdoor patio, plenty of lounge space and two bars.  The most important aspect of Oasis is that people have sex .  It’s clean.  It’s respectful and it’s couples and women only […]

The Advantage of Embracing the Morning Boner

Yes, your initial reaction to the title is likely a firm double take over the word “boner”.  We use the word frequently and unapologetically.  We like it. Friday mornings are usually prime for a mini sleep-in and an arrival to work much later than usual.  Our usual rising hour of 6am is breezily slept through […]

Make Love to Your Pastry

This giant pastry is a sweet expression of my infinite love for you…. Wednesdays are pastry days in our house.  Ludwig is gifted one giant pastry from our favourite coffee shop.  We have tried many pastries from many different coffee shops and the list of the top three is as follows… 3. Le Gourmand – […]

Eat More Butter – Have Sex Often

We have 2 very important rules in our house… have sex as often as possible. put butter on everything. Both butter and sex are typically a multiple-times-daily occurrence for us.  This makes me wonder if there is a correlation.  Allow me to explore this further. Balanced hormones = Sexy time! Saturated fat is essential for […]